BOYS VS. GIRLS [A PRETTY REALITY:) ] read it!
MY COUSIN JANINE WROTE THIS <3 TANGINA SAKTONG SAKTONG THIS IS FOR ALL THE GIRLS OUT THERE AND OF COURSE FOR THE BOYS TOO!
A MUST READ! :)
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» Boy vs. Girl
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Girls talk too much.
- Girls talk too much, because boys don’t listen.
Girls are full of drama.
- Face it, girls are just stronger than boys cos at least WE… aren’t cowardly about showing how we really feel. :P
Girls cry too much.
- We filter our emotions through crying. Cos if we didn’t cry… we’d just be like boys then.
Girls take the blow of break-ups way too hard.
- Well. For us love is like gambling. We risk everything… even if we know we may lose & left with nothing.
Girls only want good-looking boys.
- We like the looks, sure. But we don’t fall FOR the looks. We fall for the person BEHIND it.
Girls don’t make the first move.
- Duh, stupid. Why would we make the first move? You too sissy?
Girls like somebody else all of a sudden.
Girls like somebody else all of a sudden.
- We may like somebody else but it’s because what’s lacking in the one they love, is present in him. But then again… if it’s a matter of who really owns her heart. We know the answer to that, don’t we?
Girls are bossy.
- We’re not bossy. We just happen to know what’s best most of the time. Admit it.
Girls are know-it-alls.
- Ok. I admit. Sometimes girls can be pretty annoying. But then, we’re willing to learn. All it takes is the effort from your side, boys.
Girls stay silent when boys need answers.
- When we talk too much, you say we don’t listen. But when we’re silent, you accuse us. Ooh, see the glitch?
Girls ask for too much. Girls want everything!
- No we don’t. You know what we really want? EFFORT.
Girls scare boys away with all their future-planning, why not just have fun with flings?
- Sorry, we girls (at least me & my chicks :P) don’t settle for temporary pleasures. We aim for long-term or the relationship that is the REAL thing.
Girls are too emotional.
- True. Thank us, cos when we make promises, we actually KEEP them.
Girls say too much when they get hurt.
- Yep, we do. Cos even if you say that what you boys said meant nothing, get this: to a girl, EVERY detail, even the least and unseen, is VISIBLE to us. We’re intricate that way.
Girls are too serious. Why not take it easy?
- If it’s a crime to be able to set apart flirting from commitment, sue us. >:)
Girls don’t appreciate the small stuff boys do.
- Tss? Untrue. You boys HAVE NO IDEA how a single text message, a single IM on YM, or a mere “Like” on one of our wall posts can do to us. Tsk. Embarrassing but true.
Girls talk about their problems all the time.
- Filtering system people. Ok, sometimes (or most), girls gossip about their heartaches & everything. But the bottom line?.. We simply are looking out for our friends to make them avoid making the same mistake.
Girls are too sentimental.
- So making home-made cards, cookies & saying how much we love you is bad?
Girls whine all the time.
- Because we know boys can be so much better. They just won’t listen.
Girls and boys can never co-exist.
- Untrue. Individually, girls and boys can be a total disaster. But girl + boy = perfect fit. :)
Girls still hold on when boys already let go.
- Well, even if the commitment has ended… we still fulfill our side of the promise. Sad, I know. Lol.
Girls always want boys next to them.
- We don’t want you behind us, we’re not your boss. We don’t want you in front of us, you’re not our boss either. We want you next to us… don’t you wanna be a friend instead?
Lastly, girls don’t know what they want.
- Oh. We do actually. We do know what we want… we just want YOU to figure it out. >:)
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There we go. This goes out to all my girls out there. :) I love you guys & you should know your worth & embrace it with all your might! We are God’s masterpiece. Let’s celebrate it everyday because girls are not just a gift but a difference worth discovering.
Even though man was the initial creation, admit it ladies, WE give purpose to their creation. ;)
As for the boys… this ain’t no ugly truth. This… is the pretty reality. :p